As a general rule, men have almost no problems with arousal, as with obtaining an orgasm during sex. Very different is the case of women: often, even after a long prelude of the long awaited sensation of "butterflies in the stomach" and does not come. And, since I want to adapt and the desire and the rhythm of their men! As a help to the women to himself more than hot haste, in detail, our magazine.
Why a woman can not be excited before you have sex?
To get to the solution of problems in the first place, we need to define clearly in what they consisted.
The techniques of self-excitation
Every woman has her own piggy bank of tricks, because in one way or another, everyone had to think of the theme of the excitation, each one of them with certain observations and conclusions. In the comments you can share your points of view in this account, after reading (useful, hopefully) of the recommendations.
The humor
Assuming that this is not about "the first time", you can say that a particular sexual experience is, then, there is something more important, and more important, to "activate" butterflies in the stomach, and that sweet anticipation. Is your memory . She holds in itself the key to the speedy and effective towards the state of mind on the right path. This refers not only to sexual relations.
It is known, in order to give the trust, the person can remember and recreate that moment, when he felt safe. To improve the state of mind in the here and now, there is that play in the memory of the bright positive event.
Well, and for entristecerme without reason, we simply remember something bad. This string works and here. Adding a little bit of imagination, you already feel is a pleasant feeling in the lower part of the abdomen. By the way, those with a strong imagination, it may be sufficient and just a fantasy.
Erotic movie
And for those, who with imagination, not concrete, or as an adjunct to a stimulant, we offer to treat "flavor" of the film. Now, if you are apprehensive short wrinkled of a pipe, do not rush to close the page. As this really works. It is not very easy to understand why a person feels sexual arousal when viewing erotic scenes, but it is so.
Another issue, which is acceptable, and will even be pleased to see - easy, the romance of erotica or movies with three letters equis. Enjoy and the beloved movie nights or, if the stiffness or bias of this form, try to alone. Because no one knows.
Tub of hot water
There is the opinion that the aid to the tub of hot water, as it stimulates the circulation of the blood. Use your favourite oil, candles, aromas, and other "amenities" to your liking. Some of the that have this effect, we are going to review below.
The alcohol
This topic a lot of emphasis on the not be. Most people understand how it works. The main thing is not to overdo it.
The touch
You can try more radical measures, if the only effect on emotional the system gives no results. Line up several options among themselves or with the gentiles and gentle to the skin. Or rough, if you wish. Select the time. Study your body, you love yourself.
Aphrodisiacs for arousal of the woman
- The girl can not excite you so much that not even the caresses preliminary. Or, in spite of the preliminary games, the thrill of all modes do not arrive.
- The first of itself, and raises the option that something is not well with the couple: 1) He does things that, in place of pleasant, do not cause any of the feelings or even the opposite; 2) it is not interesting how man; 3) it is Possible that you are "morally" away from him - some women simply can't leave a person with non-psychological near.
- This can be the tiredness. Yes, normal, physical fatigue, tiredness. If after a busy day, trying to have sex and that doesn't work, think: maybe the reason banal, and in vain you've spent the last hour searching for answers on the world wide web?
- The fatigue can still be and moral, which, in principle, also is not fatal, but a bit more difficult.
- More seriously, when the cold prevents any discomfort or disease, as well as "female".
- Reception of medicines can influence the process of excitation.
- They may have problems of a sexual nature, such as frigidity, or post-traumatic period of psychological trauma. However, it is not addressed in the internet, and with the help of doctors and specialists.
- The impressionable individuals of a change in the state of mind you can call it anything - here refers to that which in the current climate that you are confused, does not give to relax. Think about what you.
- The stiffness, the shame. It may be the result of the attitude toward sex as something bad or complex in terms of their appearance.
- The essential oils of geranium, ylang-ylang, bergamot, saffron, sandalwood.
- Strawberry, raspberry, avocado.
- The bitter chocolate.
- The oil of olive.
- Almonds.
- The garlic (and in fact, it is).
- The ginger.
- Seafood.
- Quail eggs.
- Greens, asparagus, cabbage, navy, artichokes.
- Spices - black pepper, basil, anise, cardamom, cinnamon, etc
As it excites the woman's remedies?
The list of aphrodisiacs in the above list will allow without problems to compose full "stimulating" from the menu. Can the brewing of beer and the thrust of all sorts of teas and drinks.
In addition, we offer to make a separate paragraph of the extract of rhodiola rosea (golden root, tibetan ginseng) . In folk medicine it has been used for over two thousand years for the treatment of various ailments, while the use of several tablespoons of tincture of an hour before the close, will increase the excitation and the grade resulting from pleasure.
As it excites the woman more quickly?
As stipulated in the techniques of self-excitation, the whole secret in the memory, the imagination, to regulate the problem persists. After all, only by constantly training himself, you are going to be presented when it is necessary (and can, and when it is not necessary).
Read an interesting novel, with beautiful scenes of bed-clothes, to see a film to your liking.
Think about sex, fantasize. Imagine yourself with the one has a desire of man. Do not hesitate and swing the framework of decency. Do with him what you really want, what is not to choose in everyday life.
Banal: buy beautiful and sexy underwear. Such, in that they themselves want.
To do this, it is important to love yourself and your body. You can see your reflection in the mirror in this dress, standing in a good posture, and smiles. Evaluate your dignity, of your sexuality. How beautiful you are, do you not?
Even in the ordinary days, is sexy. Not in vain is a part of this wonderful kit? Do not forget, how many sexual relations under this day-to-day clothing.
With the word "toy", do you have any association? If anything indecent, you have to do something about it. When the question is, as excites quickly, this option is good, at least, of three parts:
- This "toy" provides the service, when the beloved and not with you.
- Works to be released and to learn more about your body.
- As a bonus, it may be a climax of love games.
Therefore, of the excitation. Selecting the compact option among the vast variety, try to carry it with you. By chance found in this intimate attribute in a handbag, in addition to possible embarrassment, the natural and the desire he feels, recalling his recent spicy entertainment.
How to excite yourself: step by step instructions for women
- Please in order to feel confident in yourself in a 100%.
- Choose clothing and bed linen, to underline their sexuality.
- Make sure that it does not confuse and will not be distracted in the environment.
- Light the candle, if you like, use aromatic tool to tune the fret.
- Turn on the appropriate music or a movie.
- Enjoy a private or society of the partner.
Practical tips for women: how to excite himself
The most important thing is that:
- Dispose of everything that you cure someone, opinions, stereotypes, is a decent-indecent.
- Loving your body, in such a way that I sincerely enjoy them, looking in the mirror.
- And when you can with paragraph 2, to look at again. Gently slide over your face, the lips, the neck. As you would most attractive of all the young people in the most audacious of his fantasy? Templates, and the tax opinions is no longer there. What you suggest beyond its nature?
- Follow all you could extract from this article. Listen to their desires and the desires of your body. At this point, completely get rid of the modesty.
What to do if the woman is not excited?
The answer is obvious to try something else.
- Add more prelude, or vice versa, go down.
- Try to talk about sex, to talk in a different way: representations of allusions to tiny, dirty conversations.
- Try not to just talk, and learn from your half of what you want, what you like, that can be annoying. Have both are honest.
- Take a few to others that are still not made, of the fantasy, and there are. Armen value and carry out.
- Enjoy role-playing games. Try, can and will like it. Take the role of famous characters or beat the desired situation.
- Change the location, because it all becomes boring. And if the "act" occurs constantly in a stage, in the same place, and god forbid even at the same time, where there...
- Many ambiguous regarding the sex shops. It is understandable for the countries of the post-soviet space is too sharp turn, even after this time.
However, in the large shops, whether online or in your city, among a great variety, that will be to the liking of each pair: clothing, accessories, toys, games, preludes and sex , not too many to count. You only have to choose.